The guy wasn’t being avoidant

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The conclusion of the piece is that she doesn’t want to waste time dating avoidant people. This was a person she knew for like 3 days…. He wasn’t being avoidant…

Application of attachment theory to dating outside of a therapist’s office (and maybe even within) is often absurd. It often seems to be a good way to blame the other person and take no responsibility beyond saying they just weren’t a good match.